Decisions

Sometimes decisions are made, they require not much consideration.. But some decisions almost drain every bit of energy out  from your life!

You think and think, but nothing helps you decide.  That time makes one feel like if they are hanged...

And there's no where to go. If only decisions were just made, without the constant pressure of them not being wrong. And to later be not on our list of regrets!

To Achieve Perfection And Success

You cannot be perfect. Remember that!

You are going to have flaws and errors. It's human! But what great people do is they accept with dignity what they are not and can never possibly be!

Nothing is more fearless than a man that knows his own self; knows his weakness and his strength. But to just know it, is not all.

They accept that they are not great at all the things and find that one thing that makes them unique and distinct. To not yearn for something they cannot have and something they cannot be, but to allow themselves to be imperfect, and accept it with grace is the key to contentment, which is success.

Leeches

Some people are like leeches they suck the life out of you and still aren't full enough.
They drain your energy. avoid such people in your life. never think that they have a place in your life. don't waste your time changing them. Just give up on them.

You don't lose when you tried your best and nothing changed them. Give up ON THEM. find yourself a new hobby. 

Round and round

Life can revolve in circles, many times it turns into the same routine. The same fights, the same struggle and pain...

Believe in yourself

Sometimes people don't understand how important this is... To be able to believe in yourself and to look at yourself as a complete person, whose opinion matters! You listen to scholars, teachers, family, friends, so much that you forget how you want yourself to be like, what's your genuine opinion, what does you want! Believe in yourself. Your opinion counts the most for yourself. You know, somewhere deep down, what is better for you!

Tension

The very existence of tension is, when you find that the people you love don't understand you. They need to know you atleast. Being queer and different is never pleasing. Human beings have always felt the urge to connect to an other individual, to mix and fit in... To be understood is our primal need!

The things we do

Never underestimate the power of limitation and control. No one can bound you to do right but you.

Don't lrt yourself go astray. Never listen to the voice that says :
”You are not strong enough to walk the righteous path”

You are and you always will be. The only thing is to feed the strength that can overcome that wretched voice, and give you a purpose to live the right life!

Let the words flow

Words words words... There are so many words now a days and so little soul behind those words!

Once people used to weigh the words, now they just spill them relentlessly

If the other person is not valuable enough you might as well lie and later throw them out of your life.

But words? What about them!? Killing the life out of words shattering the truth they once beheld. Why this injustice?!

The promises, the sugary speech, those hearty words? The Witchcraft to capture the soul, these words... Don't use the words if not able to act on them! Don't dry them of their meaning.

Please, you! You weigh your words before you speak.

Somewhere Along The Way...

There can be possibilities, look for them. If you are facing a dead end then don't just sit down and start to count your days. Always look for ways out. Maybe start walking back but don't stop trying to find a new beginning. Maybe something New and better is waiting just round the corner for you. Keep looking!

Expressions

The expressions of our soul are limited by the vocabulary, the body language, what we feel is not really conveyed sometimes, it becomes an aching ball of secrets in our throat. Because we cannot open up.
We cannot express it the way water flows, sunlight lingers, cool breeze blows, it's  freedom... It's freedom of expression!

Little things in life

Sometimes the little things in life matter so much. From the beginning of the day the sunshine peeking its way into the room, the little chirps of the melodious birds... The sound of kettle with boiling water, the whiff of breakfast, then off to work... Smiles, random faces, fresh air.. It all matters... Everything...
Just feel it....

THINK AGAIN!

Why do you protest my existence, when it's you who made me what i am today?!

Why it is that everyone loathes the bad but never comes to realize that they are somewhere and somehow responsible for creating that evil. And maybe they participated in the sole existence of it. But we are too busy criticizing and shouting out our hatred and opinions!

if you are successful the people surrounding you are shareholders of it...And if you are a failure then it was a collective effort in making you that too!

Just think for a second... How responsible are you?

Did you turn a simple person into a confused and complicated self?
 Every touch of human changes our souls, we become what we are made to become. The people who surround us make us who we are and teach us what we should become. Nobody is born the way they are today. Our experiences with people change us!
You keep telling somebody to change and "evolve" but when they end up distant from their primary self you find them "Lost"... Aren't you the one causing the confusion?

Did we kill somebody's belief in love?
Was someone so in love with us that, being hurt by you was out of the question? And you went ahead and tore away the heart... It is you who made the person selfish now. You are to be held responsible for every bit of hurt that morphosis has caused.

Did you betray somebody who loves you?
They become bitter and untrustworthy. And unable to loe someone for a long time. You deny them of the purity of true love! You take the dream away and shatter them into pieces and never look back on what have you done.

You turned a sweet angel into a monster. Never NOT blame yourself!

Ought to stay

Somethings in life had to stay. But when reality striles love's the first thing that leaves out of the window. It has to leave. Maybe because there is no room for a throbbing heart when there's an empty stomach!

There has to be a solution

Balance is the only thing keeping us alive. There is a reciprocal of everything. There's light for darkness, there's day for night.

The same way there's always a solution to every possible problem! Never lose hope. Just keep searching for answers.

That's not love

Love is considered to be a magical thing with joy all around mostly like a fairytale where happiness knows no bounds and the end always is

”They lived happily ever after!”

But actual truth is there is no fantasy, magic and fairies involved. Everyday is a struggle! And the little joys are to be collected, stored and used for revitalization...

Journey

The most weird thing in life is to not know where does one stand, who does he like and where do the long tiresome journey leads to... Is it going to take us to the path we always knew existed or will it surprise us...

The Continous emotional extortion and the responsibility on your shoulders drive you towards despair sometimes. And you try to close all the doors to happiness and joy. But always remember all through your journey

Time heals everything! Every wound, Just remember to keep your chin up!

All the pain, all the misfortunes and the deadly memories they all going to go away and fade! They might leave scars but those scars are going to be your medal for surviving through all of it.

Remember...

Happiness is altered with experiences along the journey of life. What made you happy yesterday is a cause of regret tomorrow. So the calculated and measured steps make your journey worth all the fatigue and ache. But perplex are expectations that we entangle with the ones we love or the ones who claim to love us.. The journey is tiresome but never forget the good memories and the good people, they will always fuel you!!

The Predicament Of Choice

Sometimes in life you have to make choices, sometimes you have to make the choices you don't want to make. But the person in you whose scared of the consequences, might want it to continue till... Till the day it aches less to make that choice .. You suffer and think that someday, maybe someday that choice will be easier and someday you will make the feelings go off and away. And you're heart will be free. But the truth is you are stuck with the pain and the ache for even longer, the remorse and regret will start to consume your life. It's never too late to pick yourself up. You drag yourself on and on and think that choices are made only when they are clearly not agonizing but this is not true.

Choose. 

If you were truely satified with it you would not have come to the crossroads in the first place but if you are there don't wait, don't be stuck. Don't stare and stand at the choices... just carry on and choose no matter how much it hurts it will be better once you start the journey ahead with a little hope and a little strength. Gather the one's you love and collect them in your heart. They'll be there. 

And Listen ,You are given this tip to take baby steps towards what you want in the end but NO. Rip the bandaid. No baby steps. Just start Running. You are clear about what you want in life. Run towards your goal. Away from it all that has tired you and is putting you down. Don't look back. Say it. Make the choice. And if you are clear in your heart. Make it clear to the other person. Don't keep it in to save the heartache of your own heart or the other. Make the choice. If you don't you are being untrue to yourself. And no punishment is greater than that!